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Miss Anne Lamott’s book Bird by Bird is one of my favourite books when it comes to creative writing. It is also one of the first books that I did read when I started getting interested in writing. While there are other books written by her as well, the one that focuses on creative writing is Bird by Bird. So, I have curated some of these snippets and lessons from this book.

 

Starting with,

 

1.   Blennies are boring. Write with Open Mind.

Blenny is the type of an undersea fish that lives in the deepest areas of the sea, usually in rock bed. It keeps on sitting there in its tiny cave with its partner and kids. Most of the blennies, in their short life, don’t even rise to the surface of a sea let alone look above in the sky.

 

So, if I chose to write like a blenny, then most of my writing/poetry will be about one corner of a rocky seabed. Not very interesting.  

 

Saying this, Miss Lamott writes,

 

Who knows what this urge is all about, to appear somewhere outside, instead of feeling stuck inside your muddled but stroboscopic mind, peering out like a little undersea animal  —  a spiny blenny, for instance from inside your tiny cave?

 

2.   Pay Attention

Paying attention is of course an important characteristic for any kind of creative writing or poetry.

 

Miss Lamott writes,

 

“There is ecstasy in paying attention.”

 

“Writing is about learning to pay attention and to communicate what is going on.”

 

(Yes)

 

“The writer is a person who is standing apart, like the cheese in “The Farmer in the Dell” standing there alone but deciding to take a few notes. You’re outside, but you can see things up close through your binoculars.”

 

3.   The Unparalleled Mastery - Take it Bird by Bird

This is perhaps one of the biggest principles of every great artist, which I am still trying to learn these days.

 

Talking about her brother, Miss Lamott writes, “Thirty years ago my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to get a report on birds written that he'd had three months to write. [It] was due the next day. We were out at our family cabin in Bolinas, and he was at the kitchen table close to tears, surrounded by binder paper and pencils and unopened books on birds, immobilized by the hugeness of the task ahead. Then my father sat down beside him, put his arm on my brother's shoulder, and said, 'Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.”

 

Also, she says, “Every writer you know writes really terrible first drafts, but they stick in the chair. That's probably the main difference between you and them. Just take it bird by bird.”

 

4.   Treasure is in Little Details. Be like a Spy. Listen.

 

This is my favorite. Whock-a-boom, I am a spy spy spy!

 

“Learn to be like a ship's rat, veined ears trembling, and learn to scribble it all down.”

 

“Listen to the sound of the words.”

 

Listen listen.

 

5.   The Writing Process

 

She explains beautifully,

“You sit down, I say. You try to sit down at approximately the same time every day. So you sit down at, say, nine every morning, or ten every night. You put a piece of paper in the typewriter, or you turn on your computer and bring up the right file, and then you stare at it for an hour or so. You begin rocking, just a little at first, and then like a huge autistic child. You look at the ceiling, and over at the clock, yawn, and stare at the paper again. Then, with your fingers poised on the keyboard, you squint at an image that is forming in your mind— a scene, a locale, a character, whatever-the other voices in your mind. The other voices are banshees and drunken monkeys. There may be a listing of things that must be done right this moment: foods that must come out of the freezer, appointments that must be canceled or made, hairs that must be tweezed. But you hold an imaginary gun to your head and make yourself stay at the desk.

Yet somehow in the face of all this, you clear a space and you begin to compose sentences. You begin to string words together like beads to tell a story. You are desperate to communicate, to make real or imagined events come alive.”

 

6.   Writing is a painful, sometimes depressing work to do but if you do it well enough, people will connect.

 

When we use the most depressing and painful feelings to write something, the writing stirs people’s hearts and this is what the ultimate purpose of any art form is. Describing this, Miss Lamott writes,

 

“When I was twenty-one, I had my tonsils removed. For the entire week afterward, swallowing hurt so much that I could barely open my mouth for a straw. The nurse told me that I needed to buy some gum, and to chew it vigorously — the thought of which made me clutch at my throat. She explained that when we have a wound in our body, the nearby muscles cramp around it to protect it from any more violation and from infection, and that I would need to use these muscles if I wanted them to relax again. I began to chew it. All the pain was gone, permanently.

 

I think that something similar happens with our psychic muscles. They cramp around our wounds—the pain. They keep us moving and writing in tight, worried ways.”

 

7.   Don’t be afraid of Writing about Messy and Scary

 

“Clutter and mess show us that life is being lived...Tidiness makes me think of held breath, of suspended animation...”

 

8.   Some bits…

 

Don’t make a character perfect - without faults it loses touch of reality

 

“Write straight into the emotional center of things. Write toward vulnerability. Risk being unliked.”

 

“As a writer, you take all that you've listened, observed or overheard and turn it into gold. (Or at least you try.)”

 

“Think of your writing as a gift to the world”

 

“No one cares if you write, so you have to. You’ll be old and grey whether or not you express your creativity. But you’ll be sad if you don’t.”

 

“A Character is defined by its description and dialogue.”

 

“To create any character, the narrator/writer needs to see it in him/herself, because the narrator is the one who holds the character together.”

 

Ending with,

 

“Tell the truth”

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